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Partners Task Force for Gay and Lesbian Couples Online from 1995-2022 Demian and Steve Bryant originally founded Partners as a monthly newsletter in 1986. By late 1990 it was reformatted into a bi-monthly magazine. Print publication was halted by 1995 when Demian published Partners as a Web site, which greatly expanded readership. In 1988, the Partners National Survey of Lesbian & Gay Couples report was published; the first major U.S. survey on same-sex couples in a decade. In 1996, Demian produced The Right to Marry, a video documentary based on the dire need for equality that was made clear by the data from the survey mentioned above. The video featured interviews with Rev. Mel White, Evan Wolfson, Phyllis Burke, Richard Mohr, Kevin Cathcart, Faygele benMiriam, Benjamin Cable-McCarthy, Susan Reardon, Frances Fuchs, Tina Podlodowski, and Chelle Mileur. Demian has been the sole operator during the last two decades of Partners. Demian stopped work on Partners Task Force in order to realize his other time-consuming projects, which include publishing the book “Operating Manual for Same-Sex Couples: Navigating the rules, rites & rights” - which is now available on Amazon. The book is based on the Partners Survey mentioned above, his interviews of scores of couples, and 36 years of writing hundreds of articles about same-sex couples. It’s also been informed by his personal experience in a 20-year, same-sex relationship. Demian’s other project is to publish his “Photo Stories by Demian” books based on his more than six decades as a photographer and writer. |
Connecticut became the third American state — and the eighth government in the world — to offer legal marriage to same-sex couples on October 10, 2008. Marriage applications were available starting on November 12, 2008. Please see our article: Connecticut Offers Marriage It is not clear if they still offer Civil Unions. However, there really is no reason to get one.
The following is our original October 1, 2006 article on the Connecticut domestic partner registration known as a Civil Union. Connecticut offers the same spousal rights to same-sex couples as they do to opposite-sex couples who are legally married. This status became law on April 20, 2005. It took effect on October 1, 2005.
While many news reports have claimed that Connecticut is the first state to provide a legal status for same-sex couples without being ordered to do so by a court, both Hawaii and California provided legal protections for same-sex relationships many years before.
The week before the governor signed Civil Unions into law, the House of Representatives amended the bill at the governor’s urging to define marriage under Connecticut law as existing between one man and one woman. The Senate gave final legislative approval to the amended bill Wednesday afternoon on a 26-8 vote. After signing the bill, governor M. Jodi Rell stated: “I have said all along that I believe in no discrimination of any kind, and I think that this bill accomplishes that, while at the same time preserving the traditional language that a marriage is between a man and a woman.”
She is wrong on two counts. First, a Civil Union status is a form of unequal treatment, an apartheid.
Second, traditionally, marriage has taken many different forms, and the one man/one woman form is only one type. Seven same-sex filed a lawsuit for legal marriage in August 2004. [See: Legal Marriage Court Cases: A Timeline] While that case had not been resolved at the time the Civil Union bill was passed, Connecticut legislators who backed it claim the threatening suit did not influence them. They said they acted to extend more rights to same-sex couples and their families. On September 21, 2005, Connecticut Attorney General Richard Blumenthal advised state officials that the state should recognize same-sex civil unions and domestic partnerships from other states, but not same-sex legal marriages. The new law that extends the rights that married couples now enjoy , but it explicitly defines marriage as between a man and a woman. Richard Blumenthal: “Because our state legislature has defined marriage as a union between only a man and a woman, our state will not recognize same-sex marriages from other states. Such couples, however, may enter into civil unions in Connecticut.” As of December 2005, 463 same-sex couples received Civil Union licenses. Between October 1, 2005 and January 31, 2006, 701 civil union licenses were issued. 416 were female couples, and 285 were male couples. As of the end of July 2006, 1,072 civil unions were registered. It is estimated that about 30 percent of them were from out of state. 60 percent were female couples, 40 percent male couples. During this same period, 18 couples filed to dissolve their Unions.
Compared to the number of Unions, there are usually about 20,000 legal marriages per year in Connecticut.
While widely reported that the Unions provide all the legal marriage rights and obligations under Connecticut law — estimated to be more than 500 — there is at least one area not covered, that of an estate.
When registered partners Rene Price (61) died without a will on July 28, 2005, her 19-year partner Betty Jordan (66) apparently had no claim to their house, car and bank account that were all in Rene’s name. While the domestic partnership law enumerates a list of rights, it does not specifically mention estate issues. In an attempt to retain these items, which every married couple can assume is jointly owned, Betty was required to sue the state on September 9, 2005.
We cannot recommend getting a Civil Union, unless a couple lives in Connecticut, and plans to live there forever. Since no other state officially recognizes the status, it will cannot offer benefits elsewhere. Further, should a couple wish to dissolve their Civil Union, they would be required to return to Connecticut. Also, it is important to consider that Civil Unions are a codification of a second-class status.
Civil unions do not have any legal weight in the federal sphere, so may not be used for immigration of a binational partner. Vermont Civil Unions have been met with completely unpredictable legal reactions from many states, most often being dismissed as invalid. [For a list of state reactions, please see our article: Civil Unions: The Vermont Approach]
This domestic partnership status does not work as a model for America, because implementing an equivalent legal status to marriage requires duplicating 150-to-350 laws in each state, and more than 1,138 laws on the federal level. [See U.S. Federal Laws for the Legally Married.] The whole idea is completely impractical. Further, domestic partnerships are usually not recognized outside of the issuing state. Because of the lack of portability, they create a patchwork legal status as a couple moves or vacations.
Registrations do not have any legal weight in the Federal sphere, and, to date, only California and New Jersey officially recognizes this kind of status from other states.
While such contracts are an attempt to create equal treatment, they only reinforce a separate and totally unequal status, one we consider to be a manifestation of apartheid.
For a vast survey, please see our:
Legal Marriage Report: Global Status of Legal Marriage Return to: Domestic Partnership Benefits
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