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Partners Task Force for Gay and Lesbian Couples Online from 1995-2022 Demian and Steve Bryant originally founded Partners as a monthly newsletter in 1986. By late 1990 it was reformatted into a bi-monthly magazine. Print publication was halted by 1995 when Demian published Partners as a Web site, which greatly expanded readership. In 1988, the Partners National Survey of Lesbian & Gay Couples report was published; the first major U.S. survey on same-sex couples in a decade. In 1996, Demian produced The Right to Marry, a video documentary based on the dire need for equality that was made clear by the data from the survey mentioned above. The video featured interviews with Rev. Mel White, Evan Wolfson, Phyllis Burke, Richard Mohr, Kevin Cathcart, Faygele benMiriam, Benjamin Cable-McCarthy, Susan Reardon, Frances Fuchs, Tina Podlodowski, and Chelle Mileur. Demian has been the sole operator during the last two decades of Partners. Demian stopped work on Partners Task Force in order to realize his other time-consuming projects, which include publishing the book “Operating Manual for Same-Sex Couples: Navigating the rules, rites & rights” - which is now available on Amazon. The book is based on the Partners Survey mentioned above, his interviews of scores of couples, and 36 years of writing hundreds of articles about same-sex couples. It’s also been informed by his personal experience in a 20-year, same-sex relationship. Demian’s other project is to publish his “Photo Stories by Demian” books based on his more than six decades as a photographer and writer. |
On July 22, 2010, the marriage bill became law and Argentina became the 11th government in the world, and the first Latin American country to offer same-sex marriage nationally.
The law’s passage was a priority for President Cristina Fernandez’s government, and has inspired activists to push for similar laws in other countries. However, there were political risks for Fernandez and her husband, former President Nestor Kirchner. The vote divided their governing coalition, and, while gay rights have strong support in the capital, strong anti-gay feelings still run in much of Argentine society, where the vast majority of people are Roman Catholic. In late 2009, the Argentine Congress considered two proposals, sponsored by Silvia Augsburger and Vilma Ibarra, to change Article 172 of the Civil Code. On October 27, 2009, the same-sex marriage bills were debated in the Chamber of Deputies’ General Law Committee and the Committee on Family, Women, Children and Youth. Ibarra expressed her desire to have same-sex marriage in Argentina approved by the end of 2009. Debate on the bills continued on November 5 and on November 10, before being postponed and resuming in March 2010. A survey taken at the time found that 70 percent of Argentines supported legalizing same-sex marriage. On November 12, 2009, a court in Buenos Aires approved the marriage of a same-sex couple, Alex Freyre and José María Bello, ruling that articles 172 and 188 of the Civil Code were unconstitutional. The city Chief of Government, Mauricio Macri, said he would not appeal the ruling, but the wedding was blocked on November 30 by another court, pending review by the Supreme Court. In December 2009, the Governor of Tierra del Fuego Province, Fabiana Ríos de Longhi, ordered the civil registry office to perform and register Alex Freyre and José María Bello’s marriage. On December 28, the two men were legally wed in Ushuaia, the provincial capital city, making them the first same-sex couple to marry in Latin America. On March 10, 2010, a judge in Buenos Aires declared a second same-sex marriage, between Damián Bernath and Jorge Esteban Salazar Capón, illegal. On April 14, 2010, the Alex Freyre and José María Bello marriage was declared null and void, but technically remains legal because the decision was not communicated to the parties. In the event that the parties were notified, the married couple said it would appeal the decision, leaving the marriage legal until the final verdict. On April 15, 2010, the Chamber of Deputies’ General Law Committee and the Committee on Family, Women, Children and Youth recommended implementation of same-sex marriage. On April 16, a third same-sex marriage between two women was annulled by a judge who ruled that the Buenos Aires Civil Registry limits marriage to a man and a woman. Administrative Judge Elena Liberatori later overturned the decision and ruled the marriage between the two women valid, ordering the Civil Registry of Buenos Aires to deliver the marriage certificate to the court. On May 5, 2010, the Chamber of Deputies passed the same-sex marriage bill that also allowed same-sex couples to adopt, by a vote of 125-109. By mid-2010, since the first legal marriage of a same-sex couple took place (in December 2009), seven other same-sex couples had joined in legal matrimony in Argentina. The Supreme Court was hearing several cases concerning the right of same-sex couples to marry. On July 2, 2010, it was reported that the Supreme Court had a prepared ruling concerning María Rachid and Claudia Castro’s case, which declared articles 172 and 188 of the Civil Code as unconstitutional. On July 6, 2010, the Senate’s General Law Committee recommended rejection of the bill. The bill was originally scheduled to be voted on July 14, however, after a marathon debate that went into the early hours of the next day. On July 15, 2010, the Senate voted for legal marriage 33-27, with 3 abstentions, after a marathon debate that touched on religion, ethics, the legacy of Argentina’s dictatorship and the challenges of raising children. On July 21, 2010, President Cristina Fernández de Kirchner signed the bill into law.
On July 22, 2010, the law was published in the Official Gazette, which made the bill into law. Maria Rachid, president of the Argentine Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender federation: “From today onward, Argentina is a more just and democratic country. (The law) not only recognizes the rights of our families, but also the possibility of having access to health care, to leave a pension, to leave our assets to the people with whom we have shared many years of life, including our children.”The approval came despite a concerted campaign by the Roman Catholic Church and evangelical groups, which drew 60,000 people to march on Congress and urged parents in churches and schools to work against passage. Cardinal Jorge Mario Bergoglio, the archbishop of Buenos Aires, led the campaign, stating that he bill was a “destructive attack on God’s plan.” Cardinal Bergoglio also said: “Children need to have the right to be raised and educated by a father and a mother.” He did not, apparently, campaign to remove children from single moms and dads. Opponents of same-sex marriage proposed a civil union law instead that would have barred gays from adopting or undergoing in-vitro fertilization to have children, and enabled any civil servant to “conscientiously object” to register same-sex couples. In the end, parliamentary maneuvers kept the Senate from voting on civil unions as the government bet all or nothing on the more politically difficult option of marriage. Esteban Paulon, the LGBT federation’s general secretary: “I’m proud that we never tried for civil unions, always for complete equality. (I have) an enormous conviction that equality means the same rights with the same names.”Sen. Juan Perez Alsina, usually a loyal supporter of the president, called marriage between a man and a woman “essential for the preservation of the species.” However, he did not, apparently, elaborate as to how expanding equal rights to same-sex couples would stop opposite-sex couples from copulating. But others compared the discrimination closeted gays face to the oppression millions suffered under Argentina’s dictatorship years ago, and urged their fellow senators to show the world how much Argentina has matured. “Society has grown up. We aren’t the same as we were before,” Sen. Daniel Filmus said. The law modifies article 2 of the Argentine Civil Code, which establishes matrimony as being between two individuals of different gender. The new legislation will replace the expression “man and woman” with “couple.”
Same-sex couples will have exactly the same marital rights as opposite-sex couples. This includes the right to adopt, inheritance, pension rights and other rights relating to social security.
At least one of the marriage partners must be a native Argentinean or a Resident of the country. Argentine law does not differentiate between Argentinean or foreigners; the classification is between Resident and Non Residents. License:
Recognition Your marital status will only be recognized at those countries and territories where same-sex marriage is legal. This recognition is vital for many reasons, including getting a divorce. Divorce It takes 1-to-3 years before a divorce in Argentina is finalized. It is likely that the residency requirment for getting a marriage license will still need to be in place to obtain a divorce.
Divorce was not allowed in Argentina until May 1987. Argentines may remarry as soon as their divorces are finalized. A mutual consent couple must be separated at least 1 year before it is finalized. Divorce at the request of just one party becomes possible after a separation of at least 3 years.
When you marry in Argentina, marital partners share all assets. If you divorce, all assets are divided 50/50. However, any property you had before getting married is yours alone. So, if you can document that you owned some property, a company, or some investment before you married, it remains yours after divorce. If you live in a country that doesn’t honor your marriage — which may not be determined until requesting something usually triggered by a marriage license — that state’s courts will also be unlikely to grant you a divorce.
The ability to divorce is critical. Besides the emotional reasons to dissolve a no longer functioning union, there are legal entanglements to consider. For instance, should one of the partners form a new relationship, they would not be able to sign up their new partner for workplace benefits. Most employers require an affidavit that stipulates that the partners are not married to anyone else, or have another domestic partner.
The following information was posted in 2011 at the U.S. Embassy in Argentina, and is likely out of date.
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